

As the discussion progressed, he asked me if I think being born as a man is fortunate and if I would like to be born as a man in my next birth. He urged me to answer it based on my general perception of men. My instant reply was that I cannot generalize men.

The topic was “Are men having a good time., or are they toiling hard”? The caller was from Neeya Naana and he asked for my views on this topic. While watching the show a month earlier, my husband noticed a running scroll at the bottom inviting participation applications from women professionals So, I applied for it.Ī week later, I got a call from Vijay TV. But, I thought Neeya Naana was focusing on facts and public awareness. Other debates on TV focus on how well a person can debate. I like the constructive discussions between general public. What if they were poor and the girl would need to work in a call-center.I was an avid fan of Vijay TV’s Neeya Naana talk show. Will they not allow her to work in IT or wear jean and t-shirt and have boyfriends or allow her to come home late from work. I wonder will they have the same stand if they had daughters. But that's not a majority right? People in general are good and not perverted all the time. And one of them has actually done it- luring a young guy -without even knowing whether he is gay or not and getting 'things' done. But I know some friends who have said- they can kidnap those cute boys and take them home. But I will not go and grope the guy because he is showing off. I can understand what mom is telling on a heterosexual point of view. Are they not equal human beings? But I had to admit, even if a guy shows his thighs and walks on the road- I get turned on. I asked her, when boys can wear underwear and roam around the streets why these rules applied to girls. And what if a girl wears tight clothes? My mom asked me doesn't that look vulgar. Initially I told them- generalization like that will not help.
